Let's Grow Up!

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A Christian once told me, “If you knew MY parents, you'd understand why I don't honor them.”

 

This attitude is prevalent in our culture—and it's increasing among Christians, whether they openly admit it or not.

 

But God doesn't give us the power to decide when to apply His commands, and He offers no exceptions to His fifth commandment. See note at bottom.*

 

Whether we like it or not, our attitude toward our parents reflects our attitude toward God. 

 

1. When we refuse to move past our family difficulties, we doubt God's ability to use all things for good (Romans 8:28). 

 

2. When we judge our parents harshly without taking responsibility for our sins, we become hypocrites (Matthew 7:1-4). 

 

3. When we refuse to forgive our parents, we become bitter (Ephesians 4:31-32).

 

4. When we ignore the command “Honor your father and mother” (Ephesians 6:2-3), we damage our well-being (Exodus 20:1-17).

 

“As a noun, honor in the Bible means ‘esteem, value, or great respect.’ To honor someone is to value him highly or bestow value upon him. The Bible exhorts us to express honor and esteem toward certain people: our parents, the aged, and those in authority (Ephesians 6:2; Leviticus 19:32; Romans 13:1).” (source)

 

Even if you aren't neglecting, rejecting, or resenting your parents, examine your heart and ask God if you're truly honoring them. 

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I strongly encourage you to do the short Bible study with this devotion. You'll find it HERE. And check out these other helpful one-minute devotions on this subject: 

Takers & Givers

Underestimated Command

I also encourage you to check out the Wisdom for Life devotional. It contains 100 one-minute devotions to challenge, encourage, instruct, and inspire your love for God's Word: Wisdom for Life. Read the story behind Wisdom for Life HERE. And find out about the two free Bible studies with purchase HERE. You can read the first four devotions in the book by clicking “look inside” on Lifeway or Amazon.

 

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* Note: This devotion does not address children who have been physically or sexually abused by parents. They must seek godly Christian counsel in handling their relationship with their parents. But I'm talking about genuine abuse. If your parents are annoying or difficult or non-affirming, that is not abuse. Those are things that adult Christians learn to handle with the Lord's help. Don't buy into the victim mentality promoted by many psychologists. Instead, grow up in your faith!

 

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Prayerful and Practical

When my friend broke her wrist, she was grateful that many of her friends told her they’d pray. But she was especially blessed by those who helped her in practical ways. 

It made her evaluate her own attitude, and she realized she’d often failed to “love” her Christian friends in practical ways when they were facing difficulties. 

 

Scripture gave her further motivation. Paul emphasized love for the body of Christ in 1 Thessalonians 3:12, and in 4:9 he praised the church saying, “God himself has taught you to love one another.”

We’re told in Scripture that when sin is rampant in culture, “the love of many will grow cold” (‭‭Matthew‬ ‭24‬:‭12). 

‬“The surrounding darkness will cause many to abandon wholehearted love for God and faithful love toward His people. Pressure, fear, compromise, and disappointment can harden hearts that once appeared devoted.” Study Bible 

My friend’s self-reflection encouraged me to do the same. Am I sensitive to the needs of my brothers and sisters in Christ? Am I letting God teach me how to love others as promised in 1 Thessalonians 4:9? Am I remembering the important message of the verses below?

“Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions.” 1 John 3:18 

“Faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.” James 2:14-26 

 

Prayer is important, but there are times it should be accompanied by practical actions to help others, “especially to those who belong to the family of believers” (Galatians 6:10).  

 

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For more insights, see The Prayer Excuse and Scripture Harmony.

 

Joy in Jesus Is Healthy — Part 1

Enjoy! Rejoice! Be blessed! Delight in the biblical truths in these three devotions and improve your spiritual health!!

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Six ways to avoid legalism and bring joy to your Christian obligations. A one-minute devotion to encourage you.

 

 

 

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Science confirms Proverbs 17:22. Enjoy this joyful news!  

 

 

 

Science Proves “Laughter Therapy” Is Effective

No wonder God recommends joy and laughter in Scripture! 

 

 

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Let's Not Take Our Heavenly Father for Granted

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While there are a growing number of adults who neglect or cut off contact with their parents, the majority (especially Christians) understand that God tells us to honor our parents out of respect for Him. 

 

It means being deliberate and diligent, remembering the sacrifices our parents made for us, and being willing to make sacrifices for them. This attitude is a reflection of the Christian attitude toward God.  

 

Christ made the most significant sacrifice in all of history for us, dying to give us abundant life. But it's easy for us to become self-focused and stingy toward God, taking Him for granted even though He loves us even more than our earthly parents.

“Can a mother forget the baby at her breast

and have no compassion on the child she has borne?

Though she may forget, I will not forget you!” [says the Lord]

Isaiah 49:15  

It's important that we not neglect our earthly parents, but even more important that we not neglect our Lord. Let's seek His guidance daily through His Word because He alone can equip us for everything we face in life (2 Timothy 3:16-17). 

Instead of only praying when we need something, let's remember to thank Him throughout the day, considering His great love for us (1 John 3:1).

“He died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again.” 

2 Corinthians 5:15

Let's never forget how much we owe our Heavenly Father. 

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For more insights on God as our Father, see  3 Bad Arguments for a Female God. And even though it's not Father's Day, this one-minute devotion offers some wonderful insights on God as our Father: Putting Father's Day into Biblical Perspective.

 

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Why Good People Suffer

“The real problem is not why some pious, humble, believing people suffer, but why some do not.” ― C. S. Lewis, The Problem of Pain

1. Slander ruins a man's career.
2. A pastor has chronic health problems.
3. An honest man is ruined by dishonest men.
4. Believers are tortured and killed for their faith.

“Why me?” is a common question when faced with difficulty.

But a more reasonable question might be: “Why not me?”

The Bible record refutes the notion that our earthly lives will be fair and easy:

1. Slander ruined Joseph's career and sent him to prison (Genesis 39:1-20).
2. Young pastor Timothy had chronic stomach problems (1 Timothy 5:23).
3. Corrupt King Saul repeatedly tried to assassinate David (1 Samuel 24:1-12).
5. Believers have always been persecuted (Hebrews 11).

God doesn't promise earthly ease and justice, but He promises to comfort us (2 Corinthians 1:3-5) and use bad things for our good if we focus on His purposes (Romans 8:28). 

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A Funny Mistake … Or a Double-Edged Sword?

Looking through some Christian journals in a discount store, I found one that said, “For I Know the Plans I Have for You. Jeremiah 19:11.”

I had to laugh.

Jeremiah 29:11 reads, “‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’”

But Jeremiah 19:11 reads:

“Then break the jar while those who go with you are watching and say to them, ‘This is what the Lord Almighty says: I will smash this nation and this city just as this potter’s jar is smashed and cannot be repaired. They will bury the dead in Topheth until there is no more room.’” (Jeremiah 19:10-11)

The journal was right about one thing, those were God's plans, plans of judgment against Judah's unrepentant involvement in idolatry, injustice, and immorality.

God's plans and His Word are a double-edged sword, dividing truth from error, belief from unbelief, reward from punishment (Hebrews 4:12).

This verse on the journal doesn't make the journal a good gift for a Christian friend, but this mistake is a good reminder that while God is patient, longsuffering, forgiving, and loving, people and nations can get to a point where He justly and righteously removes His protection and we receive what we deserve.

One of the plans God has for each of us is to pray for our nations, for ourselves, and for Christians throughout the world to stand firm against idolatry, injustice, and immorality. Let's do it!

 

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People often misunderstand Jeremiah 29:11. This one-minute devotion explains: Jeremiah 29:11 - Misused and Misunderstood. 

 

Please check out Lies in Disguise, and ask God if there's someone you know who would benefit from the wisdom it provides. 

 

 

 

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3 Elements of Maturity in Christ

“‘The first man, Adam, became a living person.’ But the last Adam—that is, Christ—is a life-giving Spirit ... Earthly people are like the earthly man, and heavenly people are like the heavenly man. Just as we are now like the earthly man, we will someday be like the heavenly man.” 1 Corinthians 15:45-49

Believers are in process of becoming like Christ, moving from earthly to heavenly people. And we achieve that goal by:

1. Knowing God's Word.

God’s Word is perfect, sure, right, pure, true, desirable, and sweet, making us wise, enlightening us, and warning us (Psalm 19:7-11). It is a key element in our growth in Christ.

2. Standing firm in our faith.

 

Growing in Christ means standing firm even when we face difficulty and persecution.

 

“We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.” 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 

3. Continually seeking to know Christ better.

 

As Paul explained, “Everything else is worthless when compared with the infinite value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I could gain Christ” (Philippians 3:8).

If we ignore these elements of our faith, we'll grow slowly. Let's never do that! Let's seek to draw closer to Christ every day, counting everything that gets in our way as garbage! 

What might you do this week that improves your relationship with the Lord?

Need some help in transformation? These might help:
4 Obstacles to Discipleship
4 Practical Ways to Grow in Our Faith

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Honest Scales & Bruised Berries

Today I'm sharing a devotion from my book Wisdom for Life: 

About fifteen years ago, I bought strawberries at a fruit market in a foreign country. I looked for the stand with the most beautiful berries and asked for a kilo. 

 

When I got home, I discovered the berries were moldy and mashed, not the beautiful ones I’d seen on display. Some of the locals explained that I needed to beware of dishonest vendors who scoop from a barrel below the counter. I’m sure this vendor thought his dishonesty was no big deal, but the Lord disagrees. Proverbs tells us that we are better off poor than dishonest: “Better a little with righteousness than great income with injustice” (Prov. 16:8).

Psalms echoes this truth: “The little that the righteous person has is better than the abundance of many wicked people” (Ps. 37:16). A merchant may think it’s insignificant to put a finger on the scales, but it’s not insignificant to God: “Differing weights are detestable to the Lord, and dishonest scales are unfair” (Prov. 20:23).

It’s obvious that mankind has always had a problem with cheating and defrauding. And God is concerned about honesty, whether it’s a kilo of berries or a million-dollar purchase.

Jesus made this point in Luke 16:10: “Whoever is faithful in very little is also faithful in much, and whoever is unrighteous in very little is also unrighteous in much.”

Let’s carefully examine our hearts and repent of anything dishonest, no matter how small. 

For Further Thought

 

Proverbs 16:11 explains that we serve a God who is interested in all of the details: “Honest balances and scales are the Lord’s; all the weights in the bag are his concern.” What other passages in Scripture (besides those mentioned in this devotion) emphasize God’s interest in little things?

 

Check out 10 Reasons You'll Love Wisdom for Life. 

 

 

 

 

 

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Blessed Music, Heart and Soul – Part 4

These one-minute devotions offer insights into the way music blesses our hearts and souls. And don't be surprised by another devotion about a song highlighted in Blessed Music Brings Joy to All Ages — Part 2. It's a song worth two devotions!
 

When One Verse Leads to Another and Then Another...
Sometimes we read one verse and it naturally leads to another ... and then another, and it gives us a fuller view of God's truth.

The Story Behind the Popular Hymn "Count Your Blessings"
The story behind the "Count Your Blessings" hymn will lift your spirits. A man who refused more than $1. 

 

This Little Light of Mine 

This devotion uses Scripture to show the wisdom in this simple children's song.

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Perspective Makes All the Difference in Hardship

“The next time Satan reminds you of what you’re missing, add death and hell to his list.”  ~ Ray Comfort

When we dwell on worldly things, we forget about the rewards and perfection of our eternity with Christ. We need an eternal perspective to deal biblically with life's challenges.

God gives us examples in Scripture, such as Moses who “chose to be mistreated along with the people of God rather than to enjoy the fleeting pleasures of sin” (Hebrews 11:24-25).

And God mightily used Joseph because Joseph could look beyond his brothers' merciless hatred and trust God's purposes (Genesis 50:15-20).

Hebrews 11 gives us a list of people who weren't seeking comfort and pleasure on earth. They did what God commanded because they “were longing for a better country—a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them.”

Luke 8:14 explains that some people hear the message of salvation, but “life’s worries, riches and pleasures” keep them from maturing. 

When we face difficulties, let's remember “the world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever” (1 John 2:17).

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 For more insights, see Be Prepared: Acknowledging that Our Challenges Are Serious and Be Prepared: Persecution May Come from Family. 

Quote at the top from My Comfort is Jesus, Ray Comfort,  BroadStreet Publishing, 12-1-2020

 

 

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