Years ago, talk show host Oprah Winfrey said she started rejecting Christian beliefs when she heard that God is a jealous God (Deuteronomy 6:15). She said she couldn't believe in a god who was “jealous of her” (source/ video /video minute 7:50).
He knows what's best for us and wants us to devote ourselves to Him and His purposes, not to false gods. And self-love is a false god:
“If anyone thinks they are something when they are not, they deceive themselves.” Galatians 6:3
When we focus on ourselves, we don't understand God's incredible grace because we don't understand our incredible sinfulness and desperate need for a Savior. Instead of being humbled by God's undeserved love for us, we're emboldened by our unreasonable love for ourselves.
To read more about the meaning of God's jealousy: Our Jealous God
And check out Lies in Disguise, a book that can help you better understand the way self-love is damaging church and culture and how to combat it with Scripture: Full description of the book Lies in Disguise.














































