When Male Leadership in the Church Is Misused

Before discussing biblical leadership, we need to address the abuses.

Before we start our careful study of male and female roles in the church, we must understand that every biblical command has been misused.
But when people abuse God’s commands, that doesn’t mean the command is wrong. It means the person is wrong. 

Some people are unfaithful to their spouses, and some parents mistreat their children. But that doesn’t mean we should give up on God’s design for marriage or parenting. Some church leaders are abusive, manipulative, predatory, or selfish. But that doesn’t mean we should give up on God’s design for church leadership.

God sets high standards for leaders. Ungodly leaders should be removed, and anyone who remains silent about an abusive leader is a partner in his crime. 

Furthermore, no one (man or woman) should obey an ungodly request. Never!

Scripture explains that a leader must be “above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him, and he must do so in a manner worthy of full respect.” (1 Timothy 3).

Detailed qualifications are also found in Titus 1:6-9, and God judges teachers more strictly than others (James 3:1).  

So let’s continue our Friday discussions with this foundation: God’s commands are not the cause of abuse. Sinful men are the cause of abuse. 

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For more insights, see When to Disobey Authority and Sexual Abuse in the Church - Placing the Blame Where It Belongs. And check out Limits to Submission: Abuse and Limits to Submission: Immoral or Illegal Requests.  I wrote these last two devotions specifically regarding abuse in marriage, but the principles apply to church leadership as well. However, as we'll discuss in future posts, submission in marriage is very different from submission to church leadership.


Before discussing biblical leadership, we need to address the abuses.

Before discussing biblical leadership, we need to address the abuses.


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How David Slew Goliath

The story of David and Goliath offers 5 tips for dealing with giant problems in our lives. This 1-minute devotion explains.

The story of David and Goliath in 1 Samuel 17 offers some wonderful principles for slaying our “giants,” those things that challenge our faith and sometimes seem insurmountable.

Five tips for dealing with “giants”:

1. David trusted God in his everyday life as a shepherd, being faithful in smaller things. This prepared him to be faithful in greater things (vv. 34-37).

See When Little Things Are Big Things.

2. David didn't trust himself. He trusted God. He responded to Goliath's taunts by speaking truth, and he wasn't deterred by the size of his enemy (vv. 45-47).

See The Shepherd Knew. The Giant Didn't Trash Talk versus Truth Talk, and Some Trust in Chariots and Some in Horses.

3. David ignored jealous critics and doubters (Eliab vv. 28-31 and King Saul vv. 33-40). 

See Don't Listen to Doubters and Sometimes We Miss Seeing the Heart.

4. While both armies stood waiting, David was proactive and aggressive in taking on Goliath (vv. 48-49).

See 4 Ways to Be Aggressive In Fighting Satan.

5. So let's follow David's example—building our faith in our daily life, speaking truth when others speak lies, ignoring jealous critics and doubters, and being proactive in fighting our battles.

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This devotion offers us an example of a “giant” that Christians are currently facing: A Present Goliath We Must Address & Defeat.

And I encourage you to do the Bite Size Bible study based on this devotion: Slaying Our Goliaths.


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The story of David and Goliath offers 5 tips for dealing with giant problems in our lives. This 1-minute devotion explains.




The story of David and Goliath offers 5 tips for dealing with giant problems in our lives. This 1-minute devotion explains.

The story of David and Goliath offers 5 tips for dealing with giant problems in our lives. This 1-minute devotion explains.


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Are You Swimming Upstream?

It’s important for Christians to answer this question: Are you going with the flow or swimming upstream. This 1-minute devotion explains.

When we seek to follow Christ and represent His values in our fallen culture, it's like
swimming upstream. We must be deliberate and persistent, refusing to be swept downstream with the majority (Matthew 7:13-14).

Swimming upstream means swimming against the current of sin and the flood of popular teachings that redefine God. It means identifying half-truths presented in Christian materials and letting God give us strength to resist pressures to conform inside and outside of the church.  

Our culture is happy going with the flow, swimming downstream, denying God's loving commands, and celebrating things that break God's heart (Psalm 12:7-8). 

They think they're headed for a holiday at the beach when they're actually heading for the retention pond of filth, conformity, and death.

Let's not join them. Let's swim with all of the strength God gives us as we head toward the pure mountain brook of Living Water.

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For more insights on the subject see: Blessed Are the Pure in Heart and 6 Attitudes of the World that Salty Christians Avoid.

 

It’s important for Christians to answer this question: Are you going with the flow or swimming upstream. This 1-minute devotion explains.

It’s important for Christians to answer this question: Are you going with the flow or swimming upstream. This 1-minute devotion explains.

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He Is No Fool Who Gives What He Cannot Keep

This 1-minute devotion shares 5 ways that we wrongly celebrate foolishness. It includes a quote by a famous missionary.

April Fool’s Day isn’t a church holiday, but God has lots to say about fools.

We celebrate foolishness:

1. When we neglect God’s Word.

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.
Proverbs 1:7

2. When we refuse correction.

Do not speak to a fool, for he will scorn the wisdom of your words.
Proverbs 23:9; 17:10

3. When we trust ourselves.

Those who trust in themselves are fools.
Proverbs 28:26

4. When we think we know it all.

Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions.
Proverbs 18:2

5. When we lose control.

A fool is hotheaded and yet feels secure.
Proverbs 14:16

But the most grievous celebration of foolishness is this:
The fool says in his heart, “There is no God.”
Psalm 14:1

Martyred missionary Jim Elliot said it well: "He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose." 

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This 1-minute devotion shares 5 ways that we wrongly celebrate foolishness. It includes a quote by a famous missionary.

This 1-minute devotion shares 5 ways that we wrongly celebrate foolishness. It includes a quote by a famous missionary.


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Is Romans 16:17-18 Hyperbolic?

Is it hyperbolic to be concerned when Christians share the stage with false teachers?

What do you think when a good teacher “shares the stage” with a false teacher? I recently heard someone describe this concern as “hyperbolic.”
Hyperbolic is a sophisticated way to say this concern is “exaggerated…blown out of proportion.” 

I disagree. When solid Christians participate in seminars and conferences with people teaching biblical errors, they appear to be giving their approval to such speakers. 

Is it hyperbolic to be concerned that Christians might follow a false teacher based on this outward approval?

I personally know people raised in Christian homes who rejected their faith due to the half-truths promoted by false teachers. (See How Can We Bear Watching Loved Ones Reject the Lord?)

Is it hyperbolic to think good teachers should not align themselves with such people? 

God answers our questions in Romans 16:17-18:

“I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery they deceive the minds of naive people.” 

Some might call this passage hyperbolic. But it actually shows God's strong desire to protect us from errors that damage our faith.

For more on partnering with those who teach error, see Paul's warning in Acts 20:20-32 and also check out the strong warning in 2 Corinthians 6:14-18 about partnering with unbelievers. 

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Some people might think it's hyperbolic to write my post Beware of the IF Gathering for Women because some of the teachers participating in the seminar are good teachers. If you haven't read it, I encourage you to do so. I've been adding research to it on a regular basis, so even if you read it before, you might want to check it out again. It now contains information on IF Gathering speakers David Platt and Brandon Cromer as well as info on a controversial video where Jennie Allen (IF Gathering founder) interviewed Mike Kelsey.

 

Is it hyperbolic to be concerned when Christians share the stage with false teachers?

Is it hyperbolic to be concerned when Christians share the stage with false teachers?



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Women in Church Leadership: Complementarian or Egalitarian?

Let's examine God's view of female leadership step-by-step, letting God's Word be our guide.

Satan wants to make God's principles sound foolish and evil 
(2 Corinthians 4:4; 1 Corinthians 1:18-31).

He's successfully convinced people to deny God as Creator, claiming the beautiful details of our world were nothing more than accidents and man is nothing more than an evolved animal.

And one of Satan's favorite targets is God's design for male and female. He's convinced the world that both God and science are wrong about what comprises a healthy sexual lifestyle. But, to do that, he had to first distort God's beautiful design for male and female, convincing women that God devalues them.  

Many women have bought into Satan's lies and have rejected God's loving purposes. They're seeking to understand God's commands culturally instead of biblically. And, in the process, they're losing important blessings. 

Understanding God's creation design for male and female is critically important for our faith. So in the coming weeks on Fridays, we'll be carefully examining the biblical details of womanhood, addressing these two views:

Egalitarian: Women are approved by God to hold any role in the church and home. 

Complementarian: God has assigned different roles to men and women in the home and church. 

So grab your Bible, sit back, and let's discuss this important aspect of theology step by step.

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For some foundational insights in our study, I encourage you to read How False Teachers Help Us and False Confidence.


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I'll also explain why I can hold the complementarian view and feel comfortable authoring Christian materials read by both men and women. And speaking of that, I encourage you to share biblical truths with friends and family this Easter season. 
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Let's examine God's view of female leadership step-by-step, letting God's Word be our guide.

Let's examine God's view of female leadership step-by-step, letting God's Word be our guide.



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What Motivates You in Your Faith?

What motivates your obedience to Christ. This 1-minute devotion addresses that important question.

What motivates your Christianity—legalism or love?


Legalism is a word that is often misused. It's sometimes used to discredit Christians who speak up for God's commands or refuse to compromise their faith. That's not legalism. God expects us to do those things.

Those who are motivated by genuine legalism:

1. Ignore Romans 14 which tells us not to judge other believers for their non-essentials beliefs. There are essential beliefs that are non-negotiable, but there are also denominational differences and other non-essential beliefs that shouldn't separate Bible-believing Christians.

2. Do things to look good on the outside (Matthew 6:1) but remain unchanged on the inside (Matthew 23:25).

3. Compare themselves with others and feel superior (2 Corinthians 10:12).

Those who are motivated by love:

1. Graciously defend God's loving commands (Colossians 4:6; 1 Peter 3:15)

2. Keep a clear conscience before God (Hebrews 13:18).

3. Judge themselves by God's standards (Romans 12:3).

If we love Christ it will be our heart's desire to obey Him (John 14:21).

“May [our] roots go down deep into the soil of God’s marvelous love” so everything we do is done in love (Ephesians 3:17).

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For more on this subject see:
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Paul Tells Us What to Think About!

Do you regularly do Philippians 4:8 mind checks? This 1-minute devotion explains why you should.

Fixing our thoughts on positive things will bring God's peace to our souls: 

"Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things...And the God of peace will be with you." Philippians 4:8

I don't know about you, but peace is something I want and need!

So what are we to think about?

Whatever is: 

♥ True - Things which are accurate and correct, no rumors or unproven accusations. 

♥ Noble - Things of exalted moral excellence, not crude jokes or stories. 

♥ Right - Things in accordance with what is good, proper, or just, not profanity or slander. 

♥ Pure - Things uncontaminated and uncompromised by worldly values and philosophies. 

♥ Lovely - Things that are spiritually pleasing, not evil. 

♥ Admirable - Things worthy and inspiring, not discouraging. 

♥ Excellent - Things outstanding and superior, the best of things. 

♥ Praiseworthy - Things that deserve praise and inspire godly values.

Throughout our day, whenever we daydream or pause between tasks and whenever we wake in the night or have trouble sleeping, we should seek the peace of God. And one of the best ways to do that is to think about the love, wisdom, and glory of our God. 

Please see these one-minute devotions that give insights into this subject:



And please check out the Bite Size Bible Study based on this study.


Do you regularly do Philippians 4:8 mind checks? This 1-minute devotion explains why you should.

Do you regularly do Philippians 4:8 mind checks? This 1-minute devotion explains why you should.


Be Prepared: Why Would a Loving God Send Men to Hell?

Concise, Biblical answer to the question: Why Would a Loving God Send Men to Hell?

Some people claim that a loving God would never send men to Hell. But they're wrong.

Genuine human love is faithful. 
For example, a loving wife doesn't have affairs.

Genuine human love is offended by evil. 
For example, a loving father protects his child from molestation.

But God's love goes beyond human faithfulness and goodness. His love is perfect and pure. In addition, He's a perfect judge because He knows every detail of every life. 

He longs for men to turn to Him (1 Timothy 2:3-6): 
But God won't force men to love Him and He won't let unrepentant men and women infect eternity (Revelation 21).  

Even if we don't fully understand the concept of Hell, we can trust God's just and loving character. 

“This is what the Lord says: ‘Let not the wise boast of their wisdom or the strong boast of their strength or the rich boast of their riches, but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know me, that I am the Lord, who exercises kindness, justice and righteousness on earth, for in these I delight,’ declares the Lord.” Jeremiah 9:23-24 

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For additional insights: 
Why Hoping All Men Will Be Saved Is a Sign of Unbelief

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Concise, Biblical answer to the question: Why Would a Loving God Send Men to Hell?

Concise, Biblical answer to the question: Why Would a Loving God Send Men to Hell?


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8 Evening Habits of Maturing Christians

Based on the 8 Evening Habits of Highly successful people, this 1-minute devotion explains how each habit can be adapted to apply to Christian maturity.

See note at bottom regarding questions I received about one of last week's posts.

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Most Christians don't make deliberate plans to grow in their faith, but it's something we all should do.

I've read articles about the evening habits of successful people, and that prompted me to consider some ways Christians might develop helpful evening habits. Here are eight suggestions:

1. Evaluate your day. Did you live it faithfully? Do you need to repent of something? 
 
2. Even if you had a quiet time earlier in the day, read a short passage before or after supper.
 
3. Before bed, get offline and go "online" with God for at least a few minutes. 
 
4. Be sure to include some time to pray for your family members.
5. Before falling asleep, think of ways God blessed you during the day. You might even want to keep a journal for this purpose.

6. Ask God for wisdom and courage for the following day.

7. Get enough sleep (this is good for so many things, spiritual and physical). 

8. If you have trouble getting to sleep, or if you wake in the night, meditate on a Bible verse. 

These are practical ways to obey the commands in Philippians 2:12-13 and Romans 12:1-2.

Why not look over these possibilities and ask God if you need to add any to your evening routine. They may bless your life with spiritual "success."

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I encourage you to check out the Wisdom for Life Devotional. It can also help you mature in your faith. It contains 100 one-minute devotions to challenge, encourage, instruct, and inspire your love for God's Word: Wisdom for Life. Read the story behind Wisdom for Life HERE. Find out about the two free Bible studies with purchase HERE. You can read the first four devotions in the book by clicking "look inside" on Lifeway or Amazon.
 
I also encourage you to sign up for a free subscription to Bible Love Notes and get a free e-booklet. Find out more HERE.
 
Note: Within the next few weeks I hope to do some devotions on what the Bible teaches about women in church leadership because I've had a number of good questions from readers regarding my post Think God Needs Updating? Think Again.

 
Based on the 8 Evening Habits of Highly successful people, this 1-minute devotion explains how each habit can be adapted to apply to Christian maturity.

Based on the 8 Evening Habits of Highly successful people, this 1-minute devotion explains how each habit can be adapted to apply to Christian maturity.

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