An Army Wife's View of Submission

Biblical Submission
My husband : )
My husband was a career soldier. For those of you who don’t know how the rank system works: There is a parallel ranking system: Commissioned and Enlisted/Non-Commissioned officers. 

The lowest commissioned officer outranks the highest NCO. 

When my husband was a Captain, having only 4 years experience as a officer, he became a company commander in charge of about 100 men. 

The highest ranking NCO in his company was his First Sergeant, a 20 year veteran soldier who was smart, experienced and effective. But he worked for my husband. He had to obey my husband’s commands. 

Because my husband was a good officer, he valued his First Sergeant's experience and advice and sought his opinion. But, in the end, my husband made the decisions and took responsibility for the results. 

My husband was no more valuable to his company than his First Sergeant, but he was in charge. 

I've always thought this military relationship, while not an exact fit, was a good analogy for submission in marriage. A good husband trusts his wife’s advice and involves her in decision making. She has experience and perspective that he lacks, but she submits to his decisions. 

Submission isn’t about value or importance in the family. It’s about roles of authority. None of us carries it off perfectly, but the more loving our relationship, the better it will work.

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11 comments:

  1. Those of us who are not currently army wives, but are married to former military men, also learn a view of the world of submission and authority in that unique way. It changed them, it changes us, and God uses them all.

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  2. I think this is a great illustration of another way to understand submission in marriage. Thanks for sharing!

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  3. What a great illustration of submission. While I'm not a military wife, my best friend was a career officer. Imagine her challenge as a Lt. Col married to a civilian?? In my world, I've often used the analogy of Nations and the UN. You do not relinquish your sovereignty, but rather choose to submit to leadership. Submission is always a choice.
    So glad I stopped by.
    God's peace and good to you.

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    1. I like your illustration as well...always helpful to look at submission in light of other relationships that have value, yet different roles.

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  4. I love this illustration! Thanks for sharing your heart:) Following along from the WLWW link up!

    http://the-life-of-faith.blogspot.com/

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  5. My husband is also in the military and uses this analogy! I think it is a perfect example. Although, I must admit it is very hard to put yourself under anyone who you don't respect. Respect is what you need as a wife and it is hard to teach someone how to respect others especially when they are older. I have to work on it everyday. You really did a good job explaining this one. I love it and would be so grateful if you linked up at Mom's Library!

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  6. A great example! Thanks for linking up with the Thrive @ Home community!

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  7. This really captivated me. My reading slowed down as I thought about what you were sharing. I'm not a military wife, so I had to think through the ranks, lol, but nevertheless, this was an excellent example of submission. Thank you so much for linking up with WholeHearted Home Wednesdays over at Haven of Rest.

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  8. What an excellent analogy! I think it is a pretty good one!
    Blessings!

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