- HOW we disagree with our parents, pastor, or elders
- HOW we confront a friend about ungodly behavior
- HOW we comment on a website
- HOW we comfort a friend who is hurting
- HOW we deal with a "prickly person"
- Arrogance + discernment do not equal Biblical discernment.
- Bluntness + passion do not equal Biblical passion.
- Rudeness + confrontation do not equal Biblical confrontation.
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So true. It doesn't matter how "right" a person is if in the communication they alienate, hurt, embarrass, or ridicule the other person. Immediately the other person will tune out any possible truth in whatever comes next. I had an epiphany recently when I was beating myself up over a decision I'd made. I wondered if I had made the wrong choice and my "brain" (read "enemy") told me that I'd really done it now. Things were going to go downhill and it would all be my fault. Then that still, small voice spoke to my heart and said "If you were wrong, is this the way I would tell you?" I realized God's leading or correction is always going to be loving, firm but gentle, encouraging. Not critical, rude or demeaning. We need to take the hint and be the same.
ReplyDeleteSuch a good point!
DeleteWhen God convicts us of sin, there may be an "ouch" factor, but His purposes are always loving and constructive. When Satan reminds us of our sins, it's all about shame, nothing hopeful, constructive or purposeful.
Thanks for sharing this thought.
God bless you,
Gail