Faith Revealed in Listening

Listening is a “little big thing,” an evidence of our faith.

At the church potluck the Smiths sat across from a couple they'd never met. When the meal ended, the Smiths had shared numerous details of their marriage, family, careers, relationships, and upcoming vacation. But they hadn't asked the new couple a single question! 

Christians rarely talk about the importance of listening, but we should. When we monopolize conversations, share unnecessary details, and fail to ask others questions, we're being selfish.

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” Philippians 2:3-4

When we ask questions and listen to people:

1. We can share Christ more effectively.

See Jesus Asked Questions.

2. We are able to understand and comfort others.

Romans 12:15

3. We avoid misunderstandings that can lead to anger.

James 1:19

4. We can develop more meaningful relationships.

1 Thessalonians 5:11

Listening is one of the “little big things” that reveal how we live out our faith in everyday life. We may be able to write a devotion that inspires people or share a meaningful testimony in our Bible study. But the true character of our faith comes out in life's day-to-day ordinary circumstances.

Why not evaluate your conversations the next few weeks, noting how often you listen and ask questions. If you tend to dominate conversations, learn when to “be sensible and keep your mouth shut” (Proverbs 10:19).

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To read about a time when my husband and I hoped for a quiet train ride, but got something much better, see Train Ride Conversation.