I’ve been blessed and inspired by the good comments, and even by a few of the negative ones.
There are typically two types of negative comments:
- Kind and thoughtful ones (rare)
- Unkind comments accusing me of being unkind
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- I try to not automatically assume I'm right.* Our hearts easily deceive us and we usually think too highly of ourselves (Jeremiah 17:9; Romans 12:3).
- I ask God for wisdom so I neither miss good correction or accept bad criticism (James 1:5; 1 Corinthians 4:3-4). This is the most difficult part and requires seeking the Lord and trusting Him, not ourselves or others.
* I can get defensive at first, but I try to stop myself and think before I write. I don't do it perfectly, but I'm trying.
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In the world we live in today...the truth of the Word is 1) overlooked and not important 2} usually convicts and with that comes negative 3) and the know it all's..who have lots of "head knowledge" and no "heart knowledge". Just keep doing what you are doing....There are those who love your"one minute Bible notes..Blessings!
ReplyDeleteI wanted also to say, "I always learn something!" Blessings Again!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Patty, for the sweet encouragement!
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Sooooo goooood! Love the BLN!
ReplyDeleteIt's beautiful that you aren't quick to judgment and/or stuck with a hurt ego. Those passages are wonderful and very true.
ReplyDeleteI really like your advice because more than once I have been absolutely sure "I" am right only to find "I" am wrong!! I have learned from this, not to trust my 'rightness' and to take the criticism a bit better and with the Lord's help. I like the way you laid those two steps out so clearly.
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ReplyDeletegreat tips!
Those are great principles! Often there is at least a nugget of truth in the harsh comments and we ALL tend to get defensive in those situations. Great advice!
ReplyDeleteAnyone who blogs deals with the trolls ruining the fun and pleasure now and then. You've certainly got the right attitude and perfect principles for when it happens to you. ♥
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing!
Such wisdom, to ask God to help you discern each comment. I pray that too, for love for everyone we encounter here in this bloggersphere. May they see Jesus in us. Continually. Only. Not ourselves. Thanks for linking with UNITE!
ReplyDeleteGail, I had a harsh comment recently from someone who said she was an atheist. Knowing that the truths of God's Word were "foolishness" to her because she was lost helped to put the comments in their proper perspective. Unkind comments from those in the faith are more challenging. You're wise to point out that even unkind comments can point out errors and blindspots we may not be aware of. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
ReplyDeleteI needed this! So badly! Thank you!
ReplyDeleteMary
Great post. It's easy to get defensive, so much more useful though to be teachable. Thanks for taking the time to provide the tips!
ReplyDeleteLiz
Great subject to talk about. We'll all be getting criticism or negative comments at some time so how will we handle them? Thanks for writing this!
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