Blame-shifting has been popular from the beginning of time (Genesis 3:12-13). (See The Fourth Oldest Sin: It's Your Fault.)
We want to convince ourselves that we're good people who aren't responsible for our bad choices. And sometimes we act as if sin takes us captive without our permission.
I was reminded of this when I read Michael Tait's confession after he was exposed for abusing drugs and alcohol and committing homosexual assaults for more than two decades.
He said, “Sin is a terrible thing, taking us where we don’t want to go; keeping us longer than we want to stay; and costing us more than we want to pay.”
Wrong! Sin is a choice, not a kidnapper:
We choose to sin. We take ourselves where we want to go, and we stay as long as we want or until we get caught. The only truth in Tait's statement is that it costs us more than we want to pay.*
“Each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” James 1:14-15
Whenever we choose to sin, we refuse God's “way out”:
“No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13
If we don't take full responsibility for our sins, we will end up repeating them.
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* For more on Michael Tait's behavior and cover up see Lessons We Learn from Secret Sinful Lives and Former Drummer Speaks Out.
Tait stepped down from Newsboys in January 2025 because a viral TikTok post revealed he was gay, but he did not confess until June when specific accusations were filed (Timeline).
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Hi Gail, somehow I figured out how to leave a comment on your blog. I am amazed at the subtlety of lies we believe as Christians. Thank you for pointing them out and being so diligent about it. I see the truth that it is our own sinful desires that cause us to sin; a choice we make. We are not kidnapped because God always provides a way of escape.
ReplyDeleteGlad you figured it out Karenn 😊Yes, the lies are so subtle. I was just talking about you yesterday and telling a couple of friends how much you helped me, especially with my chapter on unconditional love.
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