I remember the time when we were overseas and my daughter called to tell us about an emergency that had happened the previous day. Our toddler grandson had trouble breathing and was taken to the hospital in an ambulance. Our daughter admitted that for a while it looked like he wouldn't make it despite the fact that the problem was easily resolved once they reached the hospital.
Of course, my husband and I were unaware this was all happening until after the fact, but we still cried tears of gratitude that our beloved grandson was all right.
These situations are such important reminders of the fact that we are not in control of our lives and we don't know what tomorrow will bring.
Do you need to humbly seek reconciliation in a relationship? Do you need to stay in closer contact with a loved one? Is there someone who needs your help or encouragement?
Take some time today to ask yourself these questions, making sure you are not putting off things God wants you to do.
“Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” Psalm 90:12
See also James 4:13-14 and Proverbs 27:1.
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If you need help restoring a difficult relationship, let this devotion help: When Boundaries are Bitter Barriers
If you need some inspiration to keep in touch with parents or other loved ones, see: Call Your Mom 😊
And Think Inside the Box will give you some ideas for showing your appreciation or helping someone who is struggling.
Note: This situation happened while we were in Budapest doing Christian work, fall 2011.
What if your parents don't want you around?
ReplyDeleteHi Curious,
DeleteIf you have sincerely honored and respected your parents, not neglecting them and not judging them harshly...if you have forgiven them when they've hurt you and sincerely asked forgiveness when you've hurt them...and if you have done your best to restore the relationship and talk through any problems, God is pleased with you and I admire your attitude as well. If that is your case, I would recommend you continue to pray for your parents but not demand that they stay in contact.
If you have failed to honor them and have neglected them or used them for your purposes, holding grudges and failing to repent when you've hurt them, or refusing to calmly talk thought your differences and seek reconciliation, then I encourage you to seek God and start doing things to restore the relationship.